The Zodiac and Jealousy

Disclaimer: with astrology, it is possible to decipher our behaviour or to get a glimpse of the future. This is a theory which cannot be systematically tested. On the other hand, one may wish to follow an easier path, which puts into practice the principles listed in astrology textbooks. In a way, this is precisely the type of practical exercises that we suggest in this Lifestyle column.

We recommend that you follow our advice with both a light and observing mind. Beyond entertainment, the aim is to understand how each of us behaves in various fields; thus, we can better define and fathom, by deduction, how we have developed our natal predispositions. In addition, why wouldn't we be able to guess the talent(s) which we could harness in the future, according to our astrological profile.

The following information is given for signs in their purest form. Depending on the case, it is advisable that you check your planetary dominant or the sign of your Ascendant, the position, quality and aspects of the significators of the area involved, and if applicable, the position of the planets associated with it. For instance, for family affairs, examine the 4th House and its ruler, as well the Moon; for romance, examine the 5th House and its ruler, as well as Venus, etc.

The large number of books we have read, and more particularly, the experience we have drawn from the study of thousands of charts, urge us to be cautious. However, we thought that it may be interesting to provide a few concrete indications, which will turn out to be accurate, quite often.

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Jealousy and Aries

With your spontaneity and your open mind, you are not the kind of person to be tormented for no reason by thinking that your partner may be unfaithful. On the other hand, if you get him/her red-handed, your first reaction is to burst with anger, which may wreak havoc.

Then your spirit of competition wakes up. You are going to show him/her who is the best and the strongest one. However, you make it a point of honor to ensure that no one notices your possible wound. Moreover, quite rapidly, you lose sight of the cause of the problem, because your goal is mainly to emerge from the ordeal victorious and with honor.

Advice for Aries

Do not be so thin-skinned, and do tell yourself that undoubtedly all this has nothing to do with you.

Some Aries Examples

You will find on Astrotheme thousands of natal charts of celebrities who have the Sun in Aries, Aries rising, or Mars dominant. The former are sorted in popularity order, whereas the latter are sorted according to the strongest dominant. Since each planet also jealousy a House – sometimes two houses – you may want to also look at charts having a strong 1st House.

These texts about the sign of Aries and Mars might interest you.

Jealousy and Taurus

It must be admitted that jealousy upsets you deeply, because you need time to commit yourself. In addition, you appreciate emotional security. You believe that confidence and faithfulness are of the utmost importance in a romantic relationship.

When you notice that your partner is more absent-minded and less interested in your life as a couple, unavoidably, you ask yourself questions. But you need tangible facts, knowing that the longer your rancor needs to develop, the stronger it becomes. It is very, very difficult for you to forgive.

Advice for Taurus

Learn to be less possessive and perhaps, more relaxed about this topic.

Some Taurus Examples

You will find on Astrotheme thousands of natal charts of celebrities who have the Sun in Taurus, Taurus rising, or Venus dominant. The former are sorted in popularity order, whereas the latter are sorted according to the strongest dominant. Since each planet also jealousy a House – sometimes two houses – you may want to also look at charts having a strong 2nd House.

These texts about the sign of Taurus and Venus might interest you.

Jealousy and Gemini

Jealousy? You think that it is an interesting feeling, but that it must be evaluated from afar, on the intellectual mode and without going into it in depth. A priori, you are not prone to suspicion. Your own natural tendency is to go from one person to another, and to flirt.

In addition, you do not attach too much importance to a possible misconduct by your partner. You do not spy on him/her, and you would hate it if he/she spied on you. On the other hand, you would be cut to the quick if your significant other showed a special bond with someone else, or worse, if he/she neglected you.

Advice for Gemini

Despite your propensity for humor and casualness, be careful not to stir up people's jealousy.

Some Gemini Examples

You will find on Astrotheme thousands of natal charts of celebrities who have the Sun in Gemini, Gemini rising, or Mercury dominant. The former are sorted in popularity order, whereas the latter are sorted according to the strongest dominant. Since each planet also jealousy a House – sometimes two houses – you may want to also look at charts having a strong 3rd House.

These texts about the sign of Gemini and Mercury might interest you.

Jealousy and Cancer

Owing to the lack of confidence which is sometimes your characteristic, the fact that you have a rival is likely to deeply upset you. You do not even dare to discuss the issue face to face with your loved one. You withdraw into your shell, and you brood over your misfortune in silence.

Besides, you quickly feel that the end of the world is on your doorstep. Indeed, the danger is that you may be abandoned. What an abomination! This brings you back to the infantilizing situation in the days when your mother neglected you because she was busy doing something else.

Advice for Cancer

Read Marcel Proust again. You will learn more about jealousy à la Cancer, and particularly what you must never do.

Some Cancer Examples

You will find on Astrotheme thousands of natal charts of celebrities who have the Sun in Cancer, Cancer rising, or the Moon dominant. The former are sorted in popularity order, whereas the latter are sorted according to the strongest dominant. Since each planet also jealousy a House – sometimes two houses – you may want to also look at charts having a strong 4th House.

These texts about the sign of Cancer and the Moon might interest you.

Jealousy and Leo

What? How? You could be cheated on? The thought is stupefying, for you do not understand that anyone would dare to make you vulnerable. And yet, should this occur, your wounded pride will be frightening. So, watch out! You cannot tolerate treasons, because your sense of nobility extends to all commitments.

In theory, you are loyal. Therefore, it is difficult for you to accept that your partner is not like-minded, or worse, that he/she flaunts himself/herself in public. If you notice this sort of behavior, beware, because your wrath will be equal to your humiliation. We have seen that wars can break out for less than this.

Advice for Leo

Do not put your vanity at the core of your problem. This is how you can more easily solve it.

Some Leo Examples

You will find on Astrotheme thousands of natal charts of celebrities who have the Sun in Leo, Leo rising, or the Sun dominant. The former are sorted in popularity order, whereas the latter are sorted according to the strongest dominant. Since each planet also jealousy a House – sometimes two houses – you may want to also look at charts having a strong 5th House.

These texts about the sign of Leo and the Sun might interest you.

Jealousy and Virgo

As far as you are concerned, your anger is cold-blooded and intellectual. Because you set the bar of honesty very high, your reaction depends on the moral contract you made with your partner, in a way. In case of obvious violation of a clause, you explain the situation calmly and rationally.

You are so careful to distance yourself from your feelings that people may believe that you are indifferent, which is not the case, of course. Actually, you may be hurt, but you make it a point of honor to hide it.

Advice for Virgo

Avoid falling into your good old lack of self-confidence if you compare yourself with a rival, since it would be a double sentence.

Some Virgo Examples

You will find on Astrotheme thousands of natal charts of celebrities who have the Sun in Virgo, Virgo rising, or Mercury dominant. The former are sorted in popularity order, whereas the latter are sorted according to the strongest dominant. Since each planet also jealousy a House – sometimes two houses – you may want to also look at charts having a strong 6th House.

These texts about the sign of Virgo and Mercury might interest you.

Jealousy and Libra

In the country of your personal "Map of Tenderness", jealousy is located somewhere between the Sea of Enmity and the Sea of Danger. One might as well say that you are thrown into states that you do not appreciate too much. Indeed, in love, you are idealistic, moderate, and refined.

You continuously support values such as respect or esteem, and if, according to you, your partner flouts them by cheating on you, you feel deeply hurt. Jealousy is an emotion you find disgusting, because it takes you far from the sweet person you usually are. Nevertheless, you happen to have one finger in more than one pie, since you too, you enjoy being appealing and charming.

Advice for Libra

Admit that you may be vulnerable, and use your sharp sense of diplomacy to mend your fences.

Some Libra Examples

You will find on Astrotheme thousands of natal charts of celebrities who have the Sun in Libra, Libra rising, or Venus dominant. The former are sorted in popularity order, whereas the latter are sorted according to the strongest dominant. Since each planet also jealousy a House – sometimes two houses – you may want to also look at charts having a strong 7th House.

These texts about the sign of Libra and Venus might interest you.

Jealousy and Scorpio

Jealousy is a state which suits you. Whether you like it or not, you add so much intensity into your relationships, especially those which are romantic, that you have necessarily to deal with jealousy. You push your partner to his/her limits, you are willing to know everything, and you give the impression that you are going to rip him/her to shreds.

Likewise, the danger is that you unconsciously draw this kind of reaction in the person in front of you. A vamp, or an ardent partner, you do not hesitate to provoke your partner and to put him/her to the test. Moreover, you are unable to move on, and sometimes you even want to get revenge.

Advice for Scorpio

Be careful not to push too far these cruel games, for they may prove costly. Try to keep a Zen attitude.

Some Scorpio Examples

You will find on Astrotheme thousands of natal charts of celebrities who have the Sun in Scorpio, Scorpio rising, or Pluto dominant. The former are sorted in popularity order, whereas the latter are sorted according to the strongest dominant. Since each planet also jealousy a House – sometimes two houses – you may want to also look at charts having a strong 8th House.

These texts about the sign of Scorpio and Pluto might interest you.

Jealousy and Sagittarius

Your behavior in love is uncompromising, and you do not appreciate it if your partner is not like you. Therefore, you are bound to experience jealousy, and you find that it is quite unpleasant. As you are an idealist, it is impossible for you to even imagine that you may be cheated on, in which case your partner would lose your esteem.

You cannot stand to see an obstacle between you and the person you love. You may make a fuss to empty your mind. Pay attention to the damages, since you are not detail-oriented.

Advice for Sagittarius

In such cases, at least, practice a healthy selfishness so as to get out of the trap of a disappointing relationship.

Some Sagittarius Examples

You will find on Astrotheme thousands of natal charts of celebrities who have the Sun in Sagittarius, Sagittarius rising, or Jupiter dominant. The former are sorted in popularity order, whereas the latter are sorted according to the strongest dominant. Since each planet also jealousy a House – sometimes two houses – you may want to also look at charts having a strong 9th House.

These texts about the sign of Sagittarius and Jupiter might interest you.

Jealousy and Capricorn

Like all Earth signs, especially yours, the most mature among the three signs, you have a possessive side that you may have difficulty controlling. In the beginning, you are so distrustful that it takes you a long time before you commit yourself intimately.

It goes without saying that you consider that this stage must rhyme with lastingness and fidelity. Therefore, if the slightest scratch is made to the contract, it is most likely that you react badly and that your partner pays a high price. Should you despise any potential rival, there is a chance that your partner notices that the clapperboard is indicating the end.

Advice for Capricorn

Avoid being an inflexible purist, and examine your responsibility, for your partner is not necessarily guilty.

Some Capricorn Examples

You will find on Astrotheme thousands of natal charts of celebrities who have the Sun in Capricorn, Capricorn rising, or Saturn dominant. The former are sorted in popularity order, whereas the latter are sorted according to the strongest dominant. Since each planet also jealousy a House – sometimes two houses – you may want to also look at charts having a strong 10th House.

These texts about the sign of Capricorn and Saturn might interest you.

Jealousy and Aquarius

It must be admitted that you are uncomfortable with the prehistorical feeling that jealousy is. Independent and avant-garde, you have already shelved the old-fashion demands prevailing in certain couples in which it is forbidden to be without one's partner even just for a minute.

Does your partner cheat on you? It is mostly this word which is disturbing you. Your mind controls everything, and you do not want to make a fool of yourself by spying, an activity which does not suit you, or by accepting a belittling confrontation. Therefore, you pretend that you are indifferent, even though sometimes, inside, you are boiling over.

Advice for Aquarius

The best distraction for you is to move on, preferably without causing ructions.

Some Aquarius Examples

You will find on Astrotheme thousands of natal charts of celebrities who have the Sun in Aquarius, Aquarius rising, or Uranus dominant. The former are sorted in popularity order, whereas the latter are sorted according to the strongest dominant. Since each planet also jealousy a House – sometimes two houses – you may want to also look at charts having a strong 11th House.

These texts about the sign of Aquarius and Uranus might interest you.

Jealousy and Pisces

You do not have the reputation to be particularly prone to jealousy, but you happen to feel its sting in your epidermis. In this case, given your demands for symbiosis, you tend to hold a grudge against your partner for too long.

If he/she tries to get some fresh air and to look elsewhere, you start asking yourself countless questions. Be wary of your vivid imagination which may prompt you to make a film based on misleading impressions.

Advice for Pisces

Be more rational, and react in proportion to the severity of the facts. Otherwise, you may bring about, or increase, that which was finally insignificant.

Some Pisces Examples

You will find on Astrotheme thousands of natal charts of celebrities who have the Sun in Pisces, Pisces rising, or Neptune dominant. The former are sorted in popularity order, whereas the latter are sorted according to the strongest dominant. Since each planet also jealousy a House – sometimes two houses – you may want to also look at charts having a strong 12th House.

These texts about the sign of Pisces and Neptune might interest you.